Get Off The Diet Rollercoaster

Are you stuck in a lose weight-gain weight cycle? If so, maybe you can relate to Jasmine – she’s lost the same thirty pounds over and over again. She starts a diet, shows impressive dedication and willpower, sticks to the meal plan, exercises like an Olympic athlete, and loses 30 pounds. The minute she hits her goal weight, she celebrates …

Think It’s Bad To Eat Pizza?

Do you think pizza is bad?  Do you feel guilty if you eat pizza or other forbidden foods?  If so, I’d like to to tell you about a friend of mine, Amy, who’s been on a lot of diets. I mean, a lot. Every diet from cabbage soup to South Beach to Cookie to Paleo.  She just told me she’d …

Be Nicer To Yourself

The other day I asked someone that oh-so-typical therapist question: “How do you feel right now?” I was talking to Don (not his real name) who had lap band surgery, then “beat the band” and gained back almost all the weight he lost.   Naturally, he was upset.  He also felt a lot of shame. He said, “I know are people …

What NOT To Say To A Dieter

This article is for anyone who’s spouse, partner, friend, or loved one is struggling with weight, food or body image problems.   If you want to help but just don’t know how, then keep reading.  What’s most important is to know what NOT to say: 1)  First and foremost, don’t – and I can’t stress this enough – do NOT …